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  • mary@dewaalrealty.com
  • San Diego, CA

About Mary

Real estate has been part of my life for as long as I can remember.

I'm a San Diego native and a second-generation Realtor. For more than 24 years I've helped buyers and sellers across the county through some of life's biggest decisions - and these days, I focus on the people thinking carefully about what comes next.

Mary de Waal standing on a San Diego beach with a pier behind her

It started at home.

Both of my parents proudly served the San Diego real estate community, and their example shaped everything about how I work - a commitment to professionalism, integrity, and real care for the people I serve. 

I grew up understanding that a home is never just a transaction. It's where a life happens. That belief still guides every client relationship I'm trusted with.

Where I Focus

Helping you move forward, not backward.

As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®), I'm especially passionate about helping older adults and their families navigate the housing decisions that come with life's transitions. 

Whether you're thinking about downsizing, relocating close to family, aging in place, or exploring senior living options, I'm here with thoughtful guidance, trusted resources, and solutions shaped around your goals - never a rushed timeline.

An Eye for the Whole Picture

A background in financing

In my real estate career, I spent 17 years as a mortgage broker. I no longer offer mortgage services, but that experience gives me real insight into the lending side of a sale - so I can help you navigate fincancing with more clarity, more confidence, and fewer surprises.

People First - Always

How I work with you

Every client deserves honesty, respect, clear communication, and unwavering commitment from the first conversation to the final signature. My goal is a smooth, low-stress closing - and to treat you as a person first, never forgetting the trust you've placed in me at such a significant moment.

Beyond the Business

A wider view of the world

Outside of work, I've lived and volunteered internationally - 11 months in Berlin, 7 months in Turkey - and traveled widely along the way. Those experiences gave me a deep appreciation for different cultures and perspectives, and a habit of meeting people exactly where they are. I carry that into every relationship, with empathy and respect.

24+ yrs

California Realtor®

SRES®

Seniors Specialist

Native

California Realtor®

#01366969

CA DRE License

Move Forward, Not Backward

Let's talk about what's next - whenever you're ready.